{"id":397,"date":"2009-03-18T15:05:03","date_gmt":"2009-03-18T15:05:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.betangel.com\/blog_wp\/?p=397"},"modified":"2009-03-17T22:29:16","modified_gmt":"2009-03-17T22:29:16","slug":"all-things-come-to-he-who-waits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.betfairtradingblog.com\/blog_wp\/2009\/03\/18\/all-things-come-to-he-who-waits\/","title":{"rendered":"All things come, to he who waits"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Psychology is an important aspect of your activity on the markets. I often feel this is what separates somebody who can&#8217;t be succesful with somebody who can and also it can lift you from good to great. Having the right mindset makes a big difference. Throughout my life if I see somebody doing well my instinct has always been, &#8220;Hmm, that&#8217;s interesting I wonder what they are doing?&#8221;. Unfortunately in life you meet many people who do the opposite and would prefer to try and tarnish an achievement than give credit for it. In my experience that&#8217;s a very destructive way to look at things and shows up an errant mindset. One that will probably lead to a number of incorrect decisions.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I know it sounds corny but having a postivie attitude really does makes a huge amount of difference. As do a number of other traits such as being self critical. While watching Horizon yesterday evening I was interested in some of the comments that were passed through the presenter. I think there are some lessons in there for all of us.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">One of the things they talked about was <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Deferred_gratification\">deferred gratification<\/a>, I found this link by Googling &#8216;Marshmallow experiment&#8217; if you are interested. The other thing that caught my attention was the interview with Carol Dweck and her reference to the concept of a &#8216;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.m-cc.nl\/TheGrowthMindset.pdf\">Growth mindset<\/a>&#8216;. Both interesting concepts and something I am sure will help you in your quest.<\/p>\n<div class=\"pvc_clear\"><\/div>\n<p id=\"pvc_stats_397\" class=\"pvc_stats all  \" data-element-id=\"397\" style=\"\"><i class=\"pvc-stats-icon medium\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><svg aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" data-prefix=\"far\" data-icon=\"chart-bar\" role=\"img\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chart-bar fa-w-16 fa-2x\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M396.8 352h22.4c6.4 0 12.8-6.4 12.8-12.8V108.8c0-6.4-6.4-12.8-12.8-12.8h-22.4c-6.4 0-12.8 6.4-12.8 12.8v230.4c0 6.4 6.4 12.8 12.8 12.8zm-192 0h22.4c6.4 0 12.8-6.4 12.8-12.8V140.8c0-6.4-6.4-12.8-12.8-12.8h-22.4c-6.4 0-12.8 6.4-12.8 12.8v198.4c0 6.4 6.4 12.8 12.8 12.8zm96 0h22.4c6.4 0 12.8-6.4 12.8-12.8V204.8c0-6.4-6.4-12.8-12.8-12.8h-22.4c-6.4 0-12.8 6.4-12.8 12.8v134.4c0 6.4 6.4 12.8 12.8 12.8zM496 400H48V80c0-8.84-7.16-16-16-16H16C7.16 64 0 71.16 0 80v336c0 17.67 14.33 32 32 32h464c8.84 0 16-7.16 16-16v-16c0-8.84-7.16-16-16-16zm-387.2-48h22.4c6.4 0 12.8-6.4 12.8-12.8v-70.4c0-6.4-6.4-12.8-12.8-12.8h-22.4c-6.4 0-12.8 6.4-12.8 12.8v70.4c0 6.4 6.4 12.8 12.8 12.8z\" class=\"\"><\/path><\/svg><\/i> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" alt=\"Loading\" src=\"https:\/\/www.betfairtradingblog.com\/blog_wp\/wp-content\/plugins\/page-views-count\/ajax-loader-2x.gif\" border=0 \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"pvc_clear\"><\/div>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=betangel\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Psychology is an important aspect of your activity on the markets. 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